Opening up to life and intimacy

May 27, 2019.Reading time 2 minutes.

I finally cracked and decided to really experience life. Meet people, create friendships, date and get out of the bubble of my spirituality. If I can be blissful, I can also go out and experience real life and real human connections without my old preconceptions or fear of intimacy. Without being needy and realizing my […]

MGTOW is a blessing in disguise!

March 4, 2019.Reading time 4 minutes.

I was perusing over the internet and from afar I could see how healing in men is taking place. Yes, I am a woman human and I fully dig how men are in the process of self-actualization and self-improvement. Even though it looks pretty grim for many men a lot more men are starting […]

Examining our contribution to suffering and pain.

January 28, 2019.Reading time 2 minutes.

It is easier to feel victimized than to confront ways through which we cause pain and suffering to ourselves and others. At least for someone aware of themselves, there comes a long with self-awareness a level of responsibility. The law of cause and effect as stipulated by the hermetic principles doesn’t take into […]

Feeling a disconnection to the spirit while everything else is perfect.

January 25, 2019.Reading time 2 minutes.

It’s been a while. Life seems to take me in a direction I like while I feel lost and disconnected to the spirit. It’s a little bit as if the good things in my life right now are too good and I feel I really don’t deserve it. Typical. I miss the energy moving through […]

Emotional intelligence as a tool for healing.

December 8, 2018.Reading time 7 minutes.

Most of us are cultured into avoidance of anything and everything unpleasant. Unpleasant is uncomfortable. We are cultured into action and reaction instead of allowing whatever emotional states we are in to rest in that place. Life however has other plan for us. Whether we like it or not we have to look at […]

Finding my way back into the world after self-imposed hermitage.

November 24, 2018.Reading time 4 minutes.

The world left me behind in July last year. I crumbled and crashed like small little cookies pressed against each other in a backpack. Solitude took me. My tears drowned in depression and life fell apart. I did not want my life as it was. Something was happenings. A rebirth and deprogramming. A […]

Ending victimhood

November 16, 2018.Reading time 5 minutes.

Ohh boy! Those were the days! I look back and wonder if it was necessary for me to be stuck in that place and I realize I couldn’t have found myself without being lost. If anything, I learnt to be patient with others still stuck in a quagmire of self-sabotage. Energy moves and sometimes it […]

Embracing the seasons of life.

November 7, 2018.Reading time 3 minutes.

We have a tendency to be so upset and deeply thrown out of balance by events we deem negative and difficult. Rightly so. It’s not easy. However we must cultivate enough emotional intelligence when dealing with difficult processes in life. Again I understand how difficult it is and perharps I am the last person […]

When we expect people to change for us.

November 3, 2018.Reading time 7 minutes.

Our pop-culture and conditioning seems pretty cool in movies and television but in real life it’s so dysfunctional. When it comes to different forms of relationships we display different levels of dysfunction. I have been in that place myself without self-awareness. When people act in a way that displeases me and I feel they need […]

A day in total silence

November 2, 2018.Reading time 1 minute.

So we are doing this now. A day of total silence with no distractions. No phone, no TV and not a single word uttered. I don’t know what I want to achieve with this but I certainly want to try it and see what will come up. I am scared of being bored […]